An important thing to consider when you’re shaping good behavior is that it works best when the person doesn’t realize you’re doing it. This is just as true whether you’re shaping behavior in a 6 year old child or a 43 year old man.
So if you only get your kids every other weekend, you’re pretty much screwed.
If you don’t accept this now, you’ll likely spend the next 2 decades contemplating driving your car into a goddamn tree.
She said a screenful there.